Women as girlfriends and as wives are trolled for their anger. But there is always more than what meets the eye at the very first strike. Boyfriends and husbands who really care for their better halves are always aware of that certain period of the month when their ladies go through something that we scientifically know as menstruation period. A period which is full of hormonal imbalances, full of blood that comes out of the female organs that males otherwise love the most. There ‘is’ only a few number of the tall dark handsome tribe who understand what a women really goes through in those hard five days. Others are just victims of movies they watch and jokes they hear centering women.
History stands proof to what women are capable of yet we males only talk of their short-tempered nature, we forget what they sacrifice for the sake of their families, for the sake of their children, their brothers and most often their husbands.Despite all that they do, we men fail to act as the hand in need, shoulder in need when those five days approach their work calendars. Science has proven that women go under the most ravaging of hormonal imbalances during that time, but we want them not to complain because we in ourselves are the intelligent of two sexes. There are numerous instances that prove the statement to be correct otherwise but let’s just stick to one that proves that women worldwide are better drivers than men, go dig. It would have been easier to understand if our undergarments were dripped in blood like her’s are.
It indeed is strange that how we men tend not to work complaining of minor injuries we go through and she working despite being going through what we might not be able to speculate as far as we live, as long as we go. Talking to someone I know, I came to know that she thinks of those five days as the price she pays for being able to carry life within. The statement merely or exceedingly( depending upon you) means her ability to be able to give birth to a child. I am not a believer but guess that her patience and endurance levels made sure that even the omnipresent gifts her the duty of continuing life on the planet.
This post in the end will look incomplete because I want it to look that way and ask my fellow males, what have they done recently to make sure that the woman of their lives are happy?
Make sure to treat her the right way in those five days. Try to act as you will if your pants were full f blood stains.
Chocolates and coffee help, so do warm drinks. Make sure you ask her out for that favorite coffee of hers or if possible prepare a cup of tea yourself.
Listen to her, she might just tell you the biggest secrets of her life. Do not just listen to respond but instead listen to understand. She understands you better after your mother, learn to understand her better after her father.
She goes through cramps that are lot worse than the headaches that our bosses give us. She has to run to toilet more times than we go in a week yet she manages to smile. It is our duty to make sure that her smile stays the way she wants it to be.
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